THE NON FLUFF EMOTIONAL STUFF™
In our fast-paced world, it’s easy to find ourselves doing five things at once—half listening, half thinking, half rushing—and not really feeling present in any of it. Sound familiar? The truth is, when we scatter our focus, we lose our connection with ourselves. We get caught up in yesterday’s worries or tomorrow’s to-do list and forget to be right here, right now.
This is where mindfulness comes in. Mindfulness is simply the practice of focusing our attention on the present moment, and accepting it without judgment. It’s not about emptying your mind or pushing thoughts away—it’s about noticing what’s happening as it is, without labelling it as good or bad.
When we practice mindfulness, something beautiful happens: we slow down enough to actually feel our emotions, connect with our body, and become more aware of the choices we have in front of us. And from that place of awareness, we can respond with intention, rather than react out of habit.
The best part? Mindfulness can be practiced in the simplest of ways, woven into your everyday life.
Here are a few ideas to get you started:
✨ Mindful Breathing – Take a few minutes to sit quietly and notice your breath. Feel the air entering and leaving your
body. When your mind wanders (and it will), gently guide it back to the rhythm of your breath.
✨ Mindful Eating – The next time you eat, slow down. Notice the texture, flavour, and smell of your food. Really
experience each bite instead of rushing through your meal.
✨ Mindful Walking – As you walk, bring your awareness to the movement of your body, the feel of the ground beneath your feet, the breeze on your face. Instead of letting your mind wander to the past or future, be in step with the
present.
✨ Mindful Moments – Washing dishes? Drinking tea? Waiting at the lights? Use these little pauses in your day to tune in. Ask yourself: How am I feeling right now? Where is my attention?
Mindfulness isn’t just a calming exercise—it’s a powerful self-management tool. By bringing your attention back to the present, you:
Reduce stress and overwhelm.
Create space between stimulus and response (no more automatic reactions you regret later!).
Strengthen emotional resilience.
Deepen your connection with yourself and others.
When we learn to anchor ourselves in the present, we begin to manage life with clarity, compassion, and calm confidence.
Today, choose one simple way to practice mindfulness. It doesn’t have to be fancy—just commit to being fully present in one everyday moment. Notice how you feel afterwards.
Remember, mindfulness isn’t about perfection; it’s about practice. Each time you bring yourself back to the present, you’re building a new muscle for emotional resilience and self-management.
At Insite Mind, we call this the non-fluff emotional stuff—practical, everyday tools that make a big difference in how you show up for yourself and for life.
It’s never too late for a lane change. Insite Mind is the brainchild of one woman who after a decade spinning in the hamster wheel of the accounting world gave it up to live out her heart work. But it didn’t come without challenge and a little nudge from the universe in the form of a book Dealing with Difficult People. Upon opening it Alisa was surprised to find in black and white text “maybe it’s you”. So after several ego deaths and many personal development books along the way Alisa Pettit found her way to coaching. Now a fully fledged positive mindset coach and personal mastery guru Ali’s work helps people find their way through mindset teachings.
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